Some would argue that I have never been a mother because I have never had human children. I wouldn’t argue with them.
Others, mainly people who have pets, would say that I am a mama, or at least a parent, to Marlee—and that I was one to Max, Charlie II*, Candice, Charlie I, Caterina and Sara*. I often refer to the six cats and one dog I’ve housed, fed and loved as my children or “babies.”
There is at least one thing, though, I couldn’t do with them that, perhaps, I could have done with a human child: ride a bicycle. Perhaps even more important, I never could have taught them how to ride one.
In any event, to all of you who are moms (Your children are always your children even after they move out—or, felines forbid, die) : Happy Mother’s Day.
*—Sara was a beagle-hound pup I had briefly, before any of my cats. While out for a walk, a man petted and played with her. “My grandkids would love a dog like that.” They played some more. “They could play with it in our backyard…”“Your backyard?”
“Yeah, in my house in Pennsylvania.”
I let them play for a moment. “How would you like to take her?”
The man’s eyes widened. “How much do you want for her?”
“Nothing. She’ll be happier in your house and yard than in my apartment. She gets to go outside only when I get home from work.”
The following weekend, he took me and Sara to his house, where I met his grandkids. She was happy to meet them. And I was happy for her.